Monday, January 25, 2010

For Emmett...

We have set up a donation page through the Calgary Health Trust "Silent Hopes" program (see link below):

http://www.community.calgaryhealthtrust.ca/netcommunity/emmettbrewin

Alternatively, tax deductible donations may be made on behalf of Emmett to the Calgary Health Trust - Pregnancy & Infant Loss Program and sent to:

Pregnancy & Infant Loss Program
#126A, 1441 - 29 St. NW
Calgary, AB T2N 4J8

Although not necessary, all donations are greatly appreciated and will be used to directly support and assist bereaved parents in the provision of memory building items.

Thank you.
B&D

Friday, January 22, 2010

Baby Brewin Update

Emmett Ulysses Brewin
Born/Died: January 21st, 2010.
A tiny 726 grams

Thanks to all for your kind wishes and support at this difficult time.

Sunday, January 17, 2010

Update

I wish we had some good news for this update, but for now we are in a bit of a holding pattern and taking things day by day:

Upon returning to Calgary after the holidays, we went in for an ultrasound to check on baby's growth, and it was determined that baby has intrauterine growth restriction: meaning that baby is very small for gestational age, and it appears baby is not growing well in utero. In addition, I have been found to have elevated blood pressure. This combination of hypertension and IUGR usually indicates pre-eclampsia or toxemia, and can be very risky for both mom and baby.

I was hospitalized for 6 days while they did many tests on me and baby, and after many discussions and decisions, Dave and I decided that it would be better for me to be monitored at home, where I could get some rest, and would be followed by our Obstetrician. We are currently still at home, trying to think good thoughts, with the support of many friends and family. My parents flew in from Ontario, and have been absolutely wonderful: making meals, cleaning and organizing our house, keeping me occupied and offering emotional support.

We're still not sure what this means for baby: he is still very small, and very young (30 weeks), with additional issues identified during the ultrasound (cardiac) that will be problematic once he's on the "outside".

So, we are just waiting, and hoping, and trying to get some rest and keep things pretty low key. We will try to update as soon as we know anything more.